Dear Yossi,

I have finished reading the first letter “The Wall between Us” and I must admit that in the beginning I couldn’t understand what you meant when you used the term “wall”. 

I thought that you were referring to the wall that you have built for your country’s security, but later on, as I continued reading, I understood that you did not only refer to that physical barrier but also to the wall that surrounds the hearts – and as I see it: the wall that Arabs had built around their hearts and prevents them from accepting others or even listening to them.

My words may sound weird to you: a young Muslim Arab woman from Iraq who speaks differently.

But I want you to know that I completely understand what you meant when you spoke about the Arab and Palestinian rejectionism towards you.
I would like to share with you, from my own personal experience, the Arab mindset.
I realized, as an Arab, that those who live in the Middle East do understand the significance of their region. However, they are willing to sell their land for peanuts. I know, you are probably thinking that I am contradicting myself so let me explain to you exactly what I mean:
Before I started reading your book I was thinking thoroughly about my people and why they were acting the way they did. I believe that we, Arabs, have wonderful traditions and beliefs, but to what extent are we committed to them? Unfortunately, not that many of us are.
I say this with deep sadness. One of the beliefs I am referring to is the hospitality and acceptance, but we barely accept each other as Arabs who share the same language and to the most part the same religion, so how can we accept others from different religions living among us?!
The world in general and the Arab World in specific is in a constant state of internal conflicts. We have these inner conflicts within ourselves as well.
Mercy is absent in the Arab World, love is not there. This piece of land we live in is not being appreciated and our religion is not being well-understood by us.
Do you know why we cannot live in peace and compromise in order to solve the conflict, Yossi?  Because we don’t understand what our religion wants us to be or what God demands of us.
I want you to know that I understand the message that you are attempting to deliver, Yossi. I know that you want us to understand how much you belong to this land and how deeply rooted you are here.
Finally, I was moved by the way you addressed us directly and basically pleaded with us to accept you by saying: look at me, recognize me, I also have a story to tell.
I was also moved by what you discussed and explained to us regarding the Jews not being accepted by Arabs because it reminded me of the inner conflicts in the Middle East and how it is not only the Jews who were not accepted but also Arabs who live among us and are not accepted just because they think outside the box or because they are calling for peace. 


Dear Yossi,

I have just finished reading the second letter “Need and Longing”.

To be honest, I was is so much emotional pain when I finished reading it. I felt the pain that the Jews went through while they were doing all they could to return to their homeland. I really don’t know how to describe what I felt but I can relate to what your description of how this land was present in your prayers and hearts throughout history. I can understand this very well because we can never be certain whether prayers will or will not be fulfilled and this uncertainty causes  people to be either disappointed or relieved.  So how did your people manage to maintain strength while they were constantly preoccupied and struggling between hope and fear?!

I was so moved by how you were praying to God on those rainy days to get you back to your homeland.

I really don’t know that much about politics but I want to know how your people managed to overcome, stand back on their feet and eventually return to their homeland after everything they had gone through.

I was reading your letters through emotional and spiritual lenses. You mentioned something in this letter that captured my attention and I kept asking myself: Why did God “replace” Judaism and Christianity with Islam? I will tell you my thoughts about this matter later on as I continue reading the book and sending my responses.

I was also moved by the way you explained to us about the strong determination of the Jewish people to return to their homeland. One of the most beautiful aspect that touched me so deeply in your book was the Jewish power of love. I personally felt this love when I got to know my Jewish friends online. I was wondering about the amount of love that you carry in your hearts, this love that enabled you to move forward and persist for the sake of returning to your homeland.

You endured persecution and oppression and persisted no matter what they used to say about you; you just moved forward.  I felt that the more you were oppressed the more you felt that deep longing for your homeland.

I believe that the secret behind your strength is the love that you carry in your heart for the Land of Israel.

I believe that God is watching you with great satisfaction because you never stopped longing to return to the land of Israel. God saw this and fulfilled justice by allowing you to return after so many years in exile.

I am thrilled by the way that you presented your people’s story, Yossi. I am sure that any reader who reads your book will feel the pain and sorrow that your people felt and they would also be impressed by your strong determination to return to this land. I felt each and every single word you wrote.

Do you know why I spoke in the beginning about the pain I myself felt?

Because I have personally experienced such pain: the pain of hiding yourself and your identity while you are longing to get back to your home in which you can be who you are without fear. The pain of your desire to feel alive! The pain of lacking warmth in those cold nights while you are looking for shelter, but the shelter is far away, only there in your homeland – the only place where someone could find that warmth.

Yossi, you wrote these letters in order to tell us about the story and the reality of the land of Israel, how Jews feel and how they act. You are telling a story that nobody could understand except the ones who went through what your people went through.

My wish is that this land remains yours.

My wish is that your people find love, because you deserve love, no doubt about that.


Dear Yossi,

I have finished reading the third letter “Fate and destiny” but I am wondering now what I should write to you and how I can express the shock that I am in.
Is this really your fate, as described in this letter? I was in complete shock.

I started reading a few lines from this letter and told myself: This is the definition of Judaism, this is really interesting!

When you started explaining about the relationship between Jews and God and how it went through ups and downs, I literally burst into tears. I felt the pain and knew exactly what you were talking about. I continued reading and recalled some personal memories.

When I think about my life I realize that I, a Muslim girl, was raised to be Jewish, because Islam and Judaism share a lot of similarities; we have so many things in common. I cannot say, of course, that they are 100% the same but we have so much in common and this is why I was shocked when I learned about Judaism. Our two religion have so many similarities!

My grandfather, whose name I cannot mention for obvious reasons, used to read a lot from the Torah and was highly interested in learning about Judaism. This is what my mother told me. He used to teach my mother about Judaism in a manner that I would love to share with you:

He used to tell her: “Islam brought traditions and commitments that are based on Judaism; Judaism is the basis of Islam”. He also used to tell her something that causes my heart to race while I am writing it: there is a deep spiritual connection between the commitments of Islam and the basis of Islam, which is Judaism.

I believe that if we, Muslims, could just see and acknowledge this connection between Judaism and Islam peace will prevail between our two religions.

I also feel that I was lucky enough and blessed to be brought up in a family that taught me to consider Jews as my cousins in blood. I really feel this connection in my heart and my soul.

I used to ask so many questions about life in general and how we can understand it. My mother used to respond by saying: “Only Judaism has the answers to your questions”.

When I read your book and made the connection between what you wrote about how Jews feel and my own life and feelings, I was astonished because I finally found the answers to my questions.

So, thank you so much Yossi for writing these letters that enabled me to understand so many things.


Dear Yossi,

I have finished reading the fourth letter “Narrative and Presence” And I felt so thrilled by the manner in which you explained about the history and the religious background of each and every event; How you based your words on religious and historical facts.

I love history. I like probing deep and learning more about Jews and Muslims because I am Muslim and I do not know enough about your religion to be able to discuss and debate with you about the issues that you raised in your book.

This letter, just like the previous ones, moved me in a spiritual way and made my heart feel some comfort. I don’t even know how to explain the reason for it.

Is it because I am finally reading about the people whom I really wanted to get to know better?

Or is it because I am emotionally touched by the way you write and present your story to your Palestinian and Arab neighbours?

Or maybe because I am reading about the great success that your people have achieved?

Or perhaps because I am reading the truth about so many topics that used to be surrounded by lies?

Why can’t we live in peace? Why can’t we just realize that the diversity of human beings is a necessity in life?

I keep asking myself: As a Muslim Arab young woman, why did my own society reject me? I really can’t understand this.

Arabs cannot accept Jews because they are different; they have a different language and a different religion. They persecuted them just because they wanted to erase anything that was different. They simply like and accept what is similar to them. They also reject Arabs and Muslims who oppose them.

I believe that the problem is not in the Jews being different. The problem is in the Arab mindset that doesn’t have any clear or reasonable concepts.

Many Muslims claim that they adhere to what God asked them to follow in Quran, but they don’t follow what God really says there. Quran speaks about the importance of variety of human beings and variety of religions. Quran also stresses the fact that we have to treat other believers in one God with equality and justice.

And if, according to Muslims, God promised this land to them, why did He give it to the Jews? If the Muslim faith is connected to this land then how come this happened?

If Muslims were really connected to this land they would have never allowed so much bloodshed thar ruins it!

What I am trying to describe, Yossi, is the blind way that Arabs and Muslims follow their faith. They are not asking themselves what Islam asked them to follow. They can’t open their minds and look for ways to end this conflict because they want everything; it’s either all or nothing. The greediness and hatred fill their hearts. They hate those who oppose them and this is what made them oppressors.

They did not only oppress Jews. They have also oppressed their own innocent kids. They ruined their souls when they filled them with hatred to the point that they cannot see any other way but hatred and hostility, which ended up with them killing each other in the name of God.

The Palestinian suffering was a result of the Arabs’ mindset. The Palestinians suffered because of the Arab ego and the endless Arab greediness. Arabs think they own everything and they can give or take whatever they want. They think that God allowed them to do this. They simply act the way they want with no moral ground that controls their behavior.

They ignite the fire of hatred and hostility and then claim that others ignited it!

Finally, I just want to say that I am impressed by the way you end each letter. These endings touch my heart. They make me cry and smile at the same time.

I was very moved by the endings of the letters I have read so far: they express things I have always wanted to be told by someone; they describe the exact feelings that I could never express about these topics; they revived the spirit that I couldn’t find here, the spirit I had lost somewhere and couldn’t find anymore.

Yossi, you write the words that I have yearned to read and hear for years ! And you talk about what I have always wanted to say but couldn’t.

In the fourth letter when you, Yossi, mentioned the “AThan” (the call to prayer) and how it awakens the spirit and reminds us to pray, you awakened MY spirit by stressing the greatness of God as recited in our “Allahu akbar”; you triggered my thoughts and made me wonder: isn’t God greater than our worries and conflicts? Yes, he sure is greater than that.

You strengthened my faith in God’s greatness again, and when you mentioned how close our two peoples are to each other that we could almost hear each other’s breath, I wept.

I really want to shout outloud and make everybody hear those words but I prefer to keep quiet rather than end up dead just because I spoke out, but this silence causes me death of the soul and the heart.

Life hasn’t been easy: it wasn’t good for any of us. We all suffered, we all lost and we all experienced death of the heart and soul, so why doesn’t anybody finally finds the courage to compromise and say loud and clear “let’s listen to each other and start finding a way to end all of these conflicts ?!”

You, Mr. Yossi, did it ! and you encouraged me to say it to people around me, both by defending the legitimacy of Israel’s existence and by fighting and coping with life’s battles.

At the end of the third letter it moved me when you spoke about the legitimacy of Jews on this land, and I want to tell you that Judaism is the religion that is implicitly mentioned in Quran the most and Bnei Israel, the Jewish people, are mentioned there explicitly. 

To be honest with you, when I was a child and read Quran and learn about it, I used to ask myself: the Quran is the holy book of Muslims so why are the Israelites mentioned in it so often?

I was wondering why prophet Musa was mentioned on more than several chapters while prophet Muhammed was mentioned only once.

I was feeling jealous and told myself: the Quran is supposed to revolve around Muslims rather than Jews; what’s the point of mentioning them so often?

If God wanted to teach us a lesson on how to behave, he could have just mentioned the Jews’ wrongdoings and told us not to follow those actions: he could have focused on what was the right thing to do.

But when I learned that the Jews were God’s chosen people and that He loved them and prefered them over all other nations, I used to ask myself why God loves them that much.

This question had been on my mind for a long while until I got to know some Jewish friends and noticed something that I have already mentioned beforen: the enormous LOVE they carry in their hearts, or as my mom used to tell me: they are hardworking, people of concept and faith, they strongly believe in their religion and its teachings and are dedicated to it.

My mom said that God loves those who strongly follow his commandments and adhere to their faith in him. I am not lying when I say that I have always wanted to be able do the same and dedicate myself to God like the Jews do.

At the end of the second letter when you, Yossi, mentioned that returning to the land of Israel was made possible and eventually came true, I could truly feel your faith and such faith is something that our bodies and souls desperately need. We must have faith. If we believe that something can come true it eventually will, even if it takes years. We must fight and struggle in order to make things come true.

I find Islam to be a direct continuation of Judaism and Christianity. In Judaism all prophets fought and struggled to spread the divine message so when one wants to achieve something he or she must fight for it.